On December 19, 2018 I declared Write. Read. Have Fun. Live Life as my 2019 mantra and fucking hell have I done exactly that. 2019 has been, unequivocally, the best year of my life and if I were to describe it in a GIF I would use: I was so unexpectedly happy at the start … Continue reading Kwaheri 2019
2019 Reading Challenge
How Can The World Be This Vulgar?
December 25, 2019 is the third Christmas without the love of my life and I am sooo fucking over it. Christmas is used to be my favourite day of the year, even more favourite than my birthday and Leo season. Until my mum died 12 days before Christmas 2 years ago and Christmas has never … Continue reading How Can The World Be This Vulgar?
Z Is For Zimenishika
Zimenishika zimenishika zimenishika yo Mahali nimefika zimenishika zimenishika yo Zimenishika zimenishika zimenishika yo Niki (puff puff) kimenishika yo Yassssssssssssss!! We are finally at the last letter of The Alphabet Series. Woohoo!! For the last letter of The Alphabet Series we are talking weed. Aka Mary Jane. Aka kush. Aka bhangi. Aka ganja. Aka shadda. Aka … Continue reading Z Is For Zimenishika
Dead and Gone by Charlaine Harris
Book 34/30. My rating: 3 of 5 stars View all my reviews ** A guide to ratings ** 1 star – did not like it 2 stars – it was okay 3 stars – liked it 4 stars – really liked it 5 stars – it was amazing
December 13 2019
Dear mum, Today marks two years since breast cancer stole you from us. I may not be as heartbroken and angry as I was in the letter I wrote on this day last year, but I still have sooo many feelings. One thing I have thought about over and over again this year is how … Continue reading December 13 2019
Guest Post – Birgen Lotter
Pain In Pleasure Recently a few female friends of mine asked me how do they tell a guy what they want and not sound weird. I told them to be open with their partners. After all, sex is supposed to be a two way pleasure street. Although, I normally prefer the needs of the woman … Continue reading Guest Post – Birgen Lotter
From Dead to Worse by Charlaine Harris
Book 33/30. My rating: 3 of 5 stars View all my reviews ** A guide to ratings ** 1 star – did not like it 2 stars – it was okay 3 stars – liked it 4 stars – really liked it 5 stars – it was amazing
Y Is For (the) Year Of The Heaux
Or lack thereof. The last time I used those three words as my intro was in my first ever Sex And The City post Let’s Talk About Sex Baby! where, ironically, I talked about how I was NOT having sex. Not much has changed since I put up that post on September 19, 2018 as … Continue reading Y Is For (the) Year Of The Heaux
Sasa Hizi Ni Nini
The last couple of posts I put up for International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day and International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women were on the heavy side so today we get to laugh. At me. For readers who may not be conversant with Swahili (Hi Alexandra and Nikita) sasa hizi ni nini … Continue reading Sasa Hizi Ni Nini
