Pain In Pleasure Recently a few female friends of mine asked me how do they tell a guy what they want and not sound weird. I told them to be open with their partners. After all, sex is supposed to be a two way pleasure street. Although, I normally prefer the needs of the woman … Continue reading Guest Post – Birgen Lotter
Category: Sex And The City
An ode to my favourite TV show of all time. I have watched all six seasons twice (and counting). This is me trying to get the most out of my sex and dating life before Mr. Right and I find each other.
Y Is For (the) Year Of The Heaux
Or lack thereof. The last time I used those three words as my intro was in my first ever Sex And The City post Let’s Talk About Sex Baby! where, ironically, I talked about how I was NOT having sex. Not much has changed since I put up that post on September 19, 2018 as … Continue reading Y Is For (the) Year Of The Heaux
Sasa Hizi Ni Nini
The last couple of posts I put up for International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day and International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women were on the heavy side so today we get to laugh. At me. For readers who may not be conversant with Swahili (Hi Alexandra and Nikita) sasa hizi ni nini … Continue reading Sasa Hizi Ni Nini
X Is For XXX
Yup. We are really going there. It was my intention to put up X Is For Xenophobia as this month's guest post to shed more light on the situation in South Africa, but the person who was supposed to come through let me down at the absolute last minute. Thanks to that annoying turn of events … Continue reading X Is For XXX
Let’s Talk Birthday Sex
The last post in today’s trifecta kicks off on the Thursday before my birthday … no, wait, it actually starts off a week or two before that. As mentioned in Let’s Talk Morning Sex I was determined to have birthday sex this year, whether with myself or with someone. After being so epically stood up … Continue reading Let’s Talk Birthday Sex
Guest Post – Robertta Bobbie
A thing or two I learned from Jeff… ‘Unavyonipenda’ by Charisma was playing in the background; Jeff was seated right next to me in the car on our way out to dinner. I remember thinking about how lucky I was that this man was pursuing me in all the ways I loved. I deserved a … Continue reading Guest Post – Robertta Bobbie
Let’s Talk Morning Sex
Before Monday morning the last time I had morning sex was with my ex … in January 2018!!! IKR! Over 1 ½ years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!! I came to that realisation at the gym on Monday evening and I had to pause for a minute because my initial thought was: Also, this is the second sex realisation … Continue reading Let’s Talk Morning Sex
A Case For Sex Toys
Before I begin, let me just say that I am sooo excited that Leo season is finally here!! If you know me you know that my birthday and Leo season are an extravaganza. I learnt to love my birthday from my mother and as I got older and grew into my extra-ness, my birthday celebrations … Continue reading A Case For Sex Toys
E Is For Eye Fucking
The first time I came across the term eye fucking was back in 2011 when I Googled Harvey Specter. Mr. Specter is just sooo fucking sexy I had to find out if I was the only one who would lose my mind when watching Suits. (Spoiler alert, I was not.) I came across the term … Continue reading E Is For Eye Fucking
D Is For Dickmatized
I can bet that almost every woman has been dickmatized, sometimes known as dicknotized, at least once in her life. Where is the lie ladies? Being dickmatized, in a nutshell (haaa!), is when a female is put under a spell by dick game so strong it practically controls her life. If you have never been … Continue reading D Is For Dickmatized
