Yup. We are really going there. It was my intention to put up X Is For Xenophobia as this month's guest post to shed more light on the situation in South Africa, but the person who was supposed to come through let me down at the absolute last minute. Thanks to that annoying turn of events … Continue reading X Is For XXX
Category: Sex And The City
An ode to my favourite TV show of all time. I have watched all six seasons twice (and counting). This is me trying to get the most out of my sex and dating life before Mr. Right and I find each other.
Let’s Talk Birthday Sex
The last post in today’s trifecta kicks off on the Thursday before my birthday … no, wait, it actually starts off a week or two before that. As mentioned in Let’s Talk Morning Sex I was determined to have birthday sex this year, whether with myself or with someone. After being so epically stood up … Continue reading Let’s Talk Birthday Sex
Guest Post – Robertta Bobbie
A thing or two I learned from Jeff… ‘Unavyonipenda’ by Charisma was playing in the background; Jeff was seated right next to me in the car on our way out to dinner. I remember thinking about how lucky I was that this man was pursuing me in all the ways I loved. I deserved a … Continue reading Guest Post – Robertta Bobbie
Let’s Talk Morning Sex
Before Monday morning the last time I had morning sex was with my ex … in January 2018!!! IKR! Over 1 ½ years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!! I came to that realisation at the gym on Monday evening and I had to pause for a minute because my initial thought was: Also, this is the second sex realisation … Continue reading Let’s Talk Morning Sex
A Case For Sex Toys
Before I begin, let me just say that I am sooo excited that Leo season is finally here!! If you know me you know that my birthday and Leo season are an extravaganza. I learnt to love my birthday from my mother and as I got older and grew into my extra-ness, my birthday celebrations … Continue reading A Case For Sex Toys
E Is For Eye Fucking
The first time I came across the term eye fucking was back in 2011 when I Googled Harvey Specter. Mr. Specter is just sooo fucking sexy I had to find out if I was the only one who would lose my mind when watching Suits. (Spoiler alert, I was not.) I came across the term … Continue reading E Is For Eye Fucking
D Is For Dickmatized
I can bet that almost every woman has been dickmatized, sometimes known as dicknotized, at least once in her life. Where is the lie ladies? Being dickmatized, in a nutshell (haaa!), is when a female is put under a spell by dick game so strong it practically controls her life. If you have never been … Continue reading D Is For Dickmatized
The Hunt
I was out with friends the last Saturday of November 2018 and met a really fine man at Kengele’s. My BFF had seen him checking me out and let me know as he was sitting at the table next to ours. I looked over and was happy to see that everything about him screamed I … Continue reading The Hunt
B Is For BDE
Yup! B is for Big Dick Energy. Not the literal D … well, not really. BDE is more about the metaphorical D. The Cut defines BDE as a quiet confidence and ease with oneself that comes from knowing you have an enormous penis and you know what to do with it. It's not cockiness, it's … Continue reading B Is For BDE
Four Years Later
That was legit my reaction as it dawned on me I had not been on a first date since August 2014. Also, I love me a Dean Winchester GIF. I do not know what will become of me when Supernatural goes off air. That show is my happy place! But, I digress. While I was … Continue reading Four Years Later
